If you
have a child who recently received an autism diagnosis, please know:
1.
There is hope
2. Autism
is treatable
3. Recovery
is possible
... no
matter what your doctor told you or what you may have believed before.
I should
know. I'm Yvonne Aileen (Psst!
over here in the red shirt!),
and with me are my two monkeys [ahem]
sons: Sam (L) and Max (R). If you can't tell which boy
was diagnosed with autism, good. I hope people will say the same about
your child one day soon.
Sam (striped
shirt) was diagnosed with autism at age 2 1/2. We were lucky: we found
out early, and were able to connect with the right professionals and
resources. Sam is 11 years old now and doing great! He is in public
school without an aide (though he does receive extra help in math and
speech) and is making friends and having fun. He excels in spelling,
reading and art. (He's also great at math but he hates story problems!)
He loves music (especially Rock & Roll), Shel Silverstein poetry,
and likes to write his own poems in the Silverstein style. He loves
reading about, discussing and drawing dinosaurs and even has his own
dinosaurs for kids Web site, Kids
Dig Dinos.* He has a second Web
site that showcases, among other artwork, his recent fascination
with ghosts. His favorite things to do in the whole world are drawing,
biking, play dates and sleepovers with his friends, especially if it's
not at our house. "I want a sleepover, not a Sam-over," he
quips. He is funny, loving, and well on the road to recovery. In fact,
I am certain he would not receive an autism diagnosis today. I can't
say that he is fully recovered yet because he still has some minor social
quirks, like talking off-topic at times when he's distracted, but I
believe Sam will recover fully one day. In the words of one of
his former aides, he is truly "walking away from autism."
Read our
family's autism story here.

I created
this Web site as an autism resource for parents for two reasons: (1)
I am deeply grateful for Sam's phenomenal progress, and (2) I want to
help other families who have received what can only be seen as devastating
news: there is something wrong with their child. And whether the doctor
called it autism (ASD), high-functioning autism, Aspergers, PDD (pervasive
developmental delay), PDD-NOS (PDD not otherwise specified), ADD or
ADHD doesn't really matter. It is all part of the autism spectrum.
I'm not
a doctor, and I don't play one on TV. I'm just a mom who's done her
homework: reading dozens of books, reports, newsletters, Web sites,
attending panels, seminars, interviewing physicians, nurses, scientists,
speech pathologists, naturopaths, physical therapists, and parents,
volunteering for a nonprofit that helps physicians screen kids for autism,
and researching and writing articles on autism, one of which was sent
to our State legislature as background on the subject. If you're like
me, you want answers, and you want them now. On Autism
Answers Now, I've created an FAQ containing answers
to the most commonly asked questions about
autism, and I will also try to answer any other questions you may
have, so please e-mail me (yvonne at pdxwriter dot com). I'm also including
some autism resources
I found extremely helpful in my search for answers.
We're all
in this together, fighting the good fight for our kids, and we will
win.
Many
blessings to your and your family,
Yvonne